W34E2: Mild Annoyance of mine!
Hello gorgeous hive learners users. How is everything going, I hope it is fabulous.
This afternoon I opened my discord platform to check on the next topic for this week and I saw this astonishing contest topic. Indeed, it is worth participating and sharing in this remarkable community.
From the contest question; definitely, apart from my parents, there is that close friend of mine that no matter how angry she throws at me, I wouldn't be angry with her for a long time. Just because of my love for her.
Not only love, per say, there are other attributes that contribute to me not rejecting or having this disgusting mindset about her whenever she gets me annoyed.
She is accommodating, generous, disciplinarian, a teacher who can admonish people around her, a mentor, a discipler.
This is what happened
She is 10 years older than me. I see her as a mother figure. Not yet married, but soon to be married. She is a kind of person who doesn't have time to cook because of the nature of her work, she would call me from school to cook for her while she will go to work.
More so, On a day when we were having chain classes, she called that I should come and cook, I told her that I am having chain classes that I won't be able to make it. That she should search for another alternative until the next day. The following day, I missed two of my lectures in the evening just to go and cook for her. I took a vehicle, a drop to her place, paid all my money I had on my bag. I stroll upstairs, just to meet her cousin cooking almost to the finishing. Furthermore, I went into the parlor to exchange pleasantries, she didn't smile, but she responded. Her cousin dish food for me and I ate, my boss lady ate as well. Getting dark, almost getting to the time, to lock our hostel, I told her that I am living to the hostel, she said okay and bid me a goodbye. In the process, I asked her of #100 to pay my way to the hostel, she said she doesn't have. I pleaded with her, but she refused.
It was annoying, to the point I left angrily running to the hostel with tears rolling down my cheeks. After every so often, the anger left my heart and I called her to informed that I have reached the hostel.
Less annoyance is part of my life because it has help stay fit. Being annoyed over little things for a longer time do cause unhealthy habit. If continue to live with it, it might grow a root in your heart, which will be bad.
This is my part of the story.
This post is in response to hive learners initiative.
God bless all the initiators who have contributed immensely to the success of this community. Thank you for always publishing contest with simplicity of words.
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I am @peckypeace.
Sometimes we just see ourselves overlooking some things that should seriously get us angry at our loved ones or some set of people, it's often times like that...
I enjoy reading your entry dear friend.
Thank you @sholex94. That was what I face but then we are relating very well with each other.
We all have those persons who we cannot stay mad at for long, she did wrong, even she was mad at you, she should have considered and helped out with the #100 you asked for.
She didn't give me oh. I begged and get tired. Today she is relating with me as sister, daughter, and as a friend. I don't know what came over her Head.
Thank you for stopping by.
That thing can really hurt someone but because of the love we have for such person and we wouldn´t want to let anger reside for too long in our heart, we let the issue slide and continue our normal ways of life.
It was very hurt to the point of making a decision never to go to her house but I let the issue slide and continue to live our normal life.
Thank you for reading my blog. I appreciate you.