The Beautiful Necklace of Life: Celebrating Relationships and Love
In our families, the society we live in is a family society. In this society, families that have blood relations live together very closely and with love and affection. If there is an occasion for a wedding or an occasion of sorrow, or any moment, all the relatives and friends get together and celebrate. If there is an occasion for a wedding, then those who are getting married invite all their relatives and friends to the wedding and the best food is also arranged for the people who come to the wedding. But there is a custom in our society, or I also call this custom love, I also call it the relationship connected with love and affection. Because whenever someone gets married, everyone wants to invite all their relatives and friends, whether they are old relatives or new relatives, to the wedding so that this happy occasion can be celebrated together. Nowadays, in this fast-paced world, we have become so busy with our work and our business that we do not even have time to meet our relatives. So, on the occasion of marriage, they bring each other together and then spend a few days together, refreshing their memories and preserving new ones.
I am sharing some pictures of this occasion with you all. These pictures are from the wedding when I met my maternal uncles, my cousin and my other relatives whom I had not met for many months because this was the wedding of one of my cousin's daughter and we were in this wedding. I reached this wedding early and when we reached the wedding hall, I saw that many of my relatives had come to the wedding. I met everyone and asked about their well-being and the conditions of their children and their activities. In this way, a very beautiful time passed and this beautiful time becomes a memory that can be saved in the form of a beautiful writing, which I am saving here today. We are very lost in the world. We have become so busy in business that we do not get a chance to remember our blood relations. But when wedding ceremonies are held or any function is arranged, it is such a moment when we meet our friends, our loved ones and relatives. You are seeing my relatives in the pictures. We are sitting at the same table, eating and chatting among ourselves. These moments are very beautiful in the world and a person lives and remains happy and contented from these moments.
Here I want to write one more thing that today the world is developing at such a rapid pace, the era of social media has come and today a person is in the same speed to somehow achieve success and become famous after being successful. But I want to write one thing here that there are some relationships in life that are maintained despite all kinds of busyness and they are blood relationships, they are relationships of love, they are relationships of sincerity and brotherhood. There is a tradition in our area or in our society that we share our happiness with all the relatives and friends around us, neighbors or people of the area and in this way food is also prepared for hundreds of people. But today I see that today we are attending this ceremony in the wedding hall, but some time ago these weddings used to take place in houses, the courtyards of the houses used to be large, people used to hold wedding ceremonies in empty places in the neighborhood and this wedding gathering used to go on for many days until a Wedding rituals used to continue for a month and friends and relatives used to come to the wedding house with great joy, but today this tradition is slowly dying out. Today, these ceremonies are being held in wedding halls instead of homes. You can understand that the gatherings that are held in wedding halls or hotels also shorten their duration. In this way, those wedding functions that used to be filled with love and sincerity every month, when relatives and friends used to get together every month, today those ceremonies are reduced to a few hours. But I pray that these moments of joy will always last and every beautiful ritual and culture will continue.
You are seeing my uncles, my cousins, and my other relatives in these photos. These photos are priceless to me, very dear, and I have saved them here today. How do you like these photos, both in my writing and in my photography style? I hope you like them.
Finally, I will say these words and write these words that our life is like a beautiful necklace. Every flower in this necklace is connected to some relationship. Some relationship is of a cousin, some of a brother, some of a friend, some of a relative. All these relationships are strung together in a necklace. This beautiful necklace always looks very lovely, very beautiful, when we wear it around our neck and our heart is filled with love. I want to write this here that in whatever society a person lives in, every individual there is like a beautiful flower and all these flowers are strung together in a necklace. We can also call this necklace a society, a family, or a community. This necklace looks very beautiful when we wear it and when we show it off, when the pain of every flower in it is soft and full of love, then I think that all my relatives, my friends, my loved ones, my neighbors, every beautiful face of my society is a flower for me and these flowers are made into a necklace and I feel very happy wearing these necklaces. I feel happy. Every face in these pictures is a flower, and the bouquet or necklace made from these flowers looks very beautiful. You also have to tell me how you feel. Thank you all very much for reading and liking my writing today. May Allah always keep you successful, happy and prosperous. Thank you very much.
Lovely read! 🎉 The way relatives come together for weddings and offer support is heartwarming. ✨