Prvo budite sa sobom tek onda u odnosu. Be with yourself first, then be in a relationship.

over 2 years ago

Da li su vam kada ste bili mali rekli da ste super baš takvi kakvi jeste? Verovatno nisu. E tu je sve počelo. Upravo od tog monenta počinje naš pakao. Tada su krenule sumnje, strahovi, nezadovoljstva, gubitak samopouzdanja i još uvek nosimo taj teret. A samo je trebalo neko da vam da mir tako što će reći da si dobar baš takav kakav si.

When you were little, were you told that you are great just the way you are? They probably didn't. And that's where it all started. It is from that moment that our hell begins. That's when doubts, fears, dissatisfaction, loss of self-confidence started and we still carry that burden. And you just needed someone to give you peace by saying that you are good just the way you are.

Niko nama nije kriv osim nas samih. Sva pitanja i svi odgovori su u nama ali ne želimo svi da učimo, želimo samo da se zabavljamo i sanjamo budni.

No one is to blame but ourselves. All the questions and all the answers are within us, but not all of us want to learn, we just want to have fun and daydream.

Vidite, život je takav da kao plima i oseka, budemo dobro pa loše pa dobro pa loše. E vidite, kada ste loše, sačekajte da prodje. Nemojte iz tog stanja praviti planove. Nemojte tada tražiti partnera. Kada ste krhki, slabi i usamljeni, sve su šanse da privučete baš takvog partnera.
Pomislićete da ste našli baš ono što vam treba. Kakav promašaj.

You see, life is such that like the tides, we are good and bad and good and bad. You see, when you are bad, wait for it to pass. Don't make plans out of that state. Don't look for a partner then. When you are fragile, weak and lonely, there is every chance that you will attract just such a partner.
You'll think you've found exactly what you need. What a failure.

Samo ćete privući onakve osobe kakvi ste i vi u tom trenutku.
Kada ste slabi ne vidite istinu. Jednostavno sačekajte. Dopustite sebi da budete tužni i nevoljni, da patite, jer ćete posle tog stanja izači jači.

You will only attract the kind of person you are at that moment.
When you are weak you do not see the truth. Simply wait. Allow yourself to be sad and reluctant, to suffer, because you will come out stronger after that state.

Kada jednom budete pobedili sebe, svaki naredni put će biti lakše. Raskinite lance sa prošlošću i lošim vaspitanjem. Probudite svest.
Ceo źivot nam govore kakvi da budemo a niko nas nije podržao takve kakvi jesmo. Stalno smo zbog toga napeti i ambiciozni da budemo neko drugi. Prihvatite sami sebe. To je najteža stvar na svetu ali jedina ispravna. Onda možete dalje. . .

Once you beat yourself, every next time will be easier. Break the chains with the past and bad upbringing. Awaken the consciousness.
All our lives we are told how to be and no one has supported us as we are. Because of this, we are constantly tense and ambitious to be someone else. Accept yourself. It's the hardest thing in the world, but the only right thing. Then you can move on. . .

Pozdrav od Anke vragolanke.