The most remarkable day of my life that fell on weekends
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I have had several remarkable weekends in my life ranging from weekends that fall on my birthday's and and weekends that i have been privileged to go for an excursion. However, the most remarkable of them all was the saturday i had my marriage ceremony.
As a bride to be, the joy that filled my heart knew no bound. About three months before the wedding, my fiance had called me and explained how he would not like to have an elaborate wedding, which at first i agreed with him even though it wasn't 100 percentage because i actually wanted a colorful and flamboyant weddings i had concluded in my mind that it was just once in someone lifetime's. My parents, too, especially my father, want to have it elaborate as per i was the first child, and that is the first wedding in my immediate family.
My husband, to be, didn’t agree to the arrangement, "' i won't be part of these." i just want simple and moderate weddings." He further said, "i won't be part of this unnecessarily spending." I was despire as he made his stance known, but my father didn't give him. He instead said my husband, to be. should support with whatever he was capable.
To cut the long story short, my fiance, due to pressure and reassurances, had to give him. He did support with what he had. Though, he had to resort a loan, which wasn't that much money. I felt for him, but it was beyong my power. I could only support him with funds in my own little way. I bought a wedding gown myself and foot some other bills that matter too.
On the D-Day, everything went as planned. We had the engagement ceremony first, which was colourful and gracefully filled dignitaries. Soon after, we went to church for proper joining in line with biblical representation. Then, we proceeded to the reception, we had a nice time, and everybody ate and was satisfied to the extent that people went home with leftover food and drinks. My husband, who had been indifferent before the occasion, was amazing and happy that the day had been glorious.
I had to ask him after the whole event why he behaved in the manner he had reacted toward marriage at first. All he could say was that he was afraid as he never knew the marriage would have been glamorous, and the support he had received was never envisaged at all.
My wedding day, which happened to be on a gorgeous Saturday, had me ecstatic. It was a day of great significance, one that will always stick with me. This event confirmed a valuable life lesson: Despite what may at first seem to be insurmountable challenges or hurdles, they may be overcome with unflinching faith and hope.
This remarkable day revealed to me that even in the face of challenges, having an optimistic outcome on life may produce amazing results and price memories. So, let this be a reminder to always embrace optimism and believe in the potential for wonderful things, even when the path look challenging.
Fathers always win, being the oldest daughter the parents are normally the ones who enjoy preparation, everyone assists in making the day special.
Life's lessons started soon before your wedding day for both yourself and your husband.
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Yes, father has a way of getting away with everything. I tried and convince him enough but told him. He is spending his money and not mine.
It is a day of pride for parents, no use arguing or trying to stop the occasion they are happy doing preparations.
I agree with you. Thanks for your contribution.
It's a good thing that in the end he supported what you like in your wedding day. It's understandable, it is once in a lifetime so why not make out the most of it no. And in the end he also enjoy that happy day of you two ( ◜‿◝ )♡
Yes he enjoyed it, just that he wasn't financially capable enough to foot the bills. So he was scared
What he feel is also understandable but at least in the end you both enjoy it and now you are happily married ( ◜‿◝ )♡. How's married life so far?
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