Predicting Fears

After cutting the lawn, I ventured into the garden to do some weeding and then again with the camera to see what I could see - and I came across this dishevelled bee sitting on the garden hose collecting its thoughts. It wasn't longed for the world by the looks of it, unable to fly with crinkled wings, it seemed to have accepted its fate, and was just waiting for the end to arrive.


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Of course, I have no idea what was actually going through its head, but my own head created a narrative, assigning human traits to a creature that experiences the world in a way completely different than I do. Yet it does make me wonder if all living things have just enough consciousness to deliberate on its own death. It might not be with such a long view or with as much depth as a human, but is there even the recognition that death is close, or are animals blissfully unaware that they will be no more.



They feel fear.

And fear is always future based.

Even while falling off a cliff, the fear is based on the soon to occur hot, not the falling itself. I can't think of a fear that isn't future based. Even the fears triggered by past events, are tied to some future possibility, like a potential repetition of the past. So when an animal is running away in fear from a predator, is it purely instinctual, or is there also a sense of "I might die" running through the head simultaneously?



There are two baby pigeons nesting in one of our apple trees, hidden amongst the vine that grows through it. They are not yet ready to fly, but by the looks of them, it shan't be too long before they leave the relative safety of the nest and venture out into their world. The same world as our own, but lived from a very different angle.

Perspective matters.

And while animals might not be able to change their own perspectives, humans are able to adjust theirs. We have the ability to reimagine our environment and what it means. We can do more than just assign human traits to animals, we can also redefine meanings to what we might have made earlier. After all, we are likely carrying a massive amount of opinion from our childhoods, when we didn't have the experience or insight to actually create an informed position, so perhaps a review is in order at least.

Of course, nothing forces us to improve ourselves, it is up to us. As a result, our default setting to "stay safe" is how most of us live the majority of our lives and often, our fears and opinions are based on a tiny sample of our experience. So, rather than being in the uncomfortable position of doing things differently, where we fear the failures and judgements from others, we make up excuses why it is better for us to stay with what we know. But maybe the limiting labels we apply to ourselves, are not a good fit for us at all.

And still we claim them as who we are.

Taraz
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Those baby pigeons are a great metaphor for growth and taking risks. They remind us that leaving our comfort zones can open up new ways of seeing things.

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And if they stay in their comfort zone, they will starve to death.

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I wish I could be out mowing the law right now! We are in the middle of a small heat wave with temps over 100 degrees with the humidity and it's virtual insanity to be out trying to do anything right now. Much to the annoyance of my wife who just wants the new gazebo we just bought put together!

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Damn, that is pretty hot. I haven't been in those temperatures for years!

Much to the annoyance of my wife who just wants the new gazebo we just bought put together!

Well, if it was up, it would be cooler in the shade :D

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It would be, but they have heat advisories out right now, probably best to just stay cool. She can be patient.

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hmmmmmmm. yea, who knows if/what animals, plants, and other things think or even IF they think. Sometime it seems certain that Dogs, cats, dophins and such do think and feel. but at other times they seem to just live on reactions and instinct. 🤔

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Dogs and cats dream, so I imagine that there is some thinking going on there.

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I think the bee doesn't understand that it is mortal. All animals except humans don't understand that all living things are mortal.
How do you like working in the fresh air? Show me a little bit of your garden in the next posts and come and see my garden.

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The garden is a bit droopy at the moment! Next week I will show a bit more :)
Yours is so much further along there than mine. Your apples are about 10x the size and the berries are already red!

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humans have a different perspective from animals no doubt which is why our movements and reasoning are far different from each other. However it is left for us to make the change for good if we really dont want to live on fear from past mistakes.

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If you see a bee like that, it is worth putting a drop of sugar water next to it. Sometimes all they need is rehydration and an energy source. 🙂

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I am always thinking that doing uncomfortable things is the key to grow.

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I think it has to be. The only way to have new, is do what is unknown. And the unknown is always a discomfort.

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It’s incredible how a simple moment like seeing a tired little bee can spark such deep reflection, I really connected with the idea that fear is always tied to the future, not the present, And the reminder that many of our beliefs are old labels we never bothered to update... that really hit home, Beautifully written.

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Yes most fears are future based. Like the fear of the unknown as we don't know what will come in the future. Also, people dislike change and nothing is as constant in our world as change. Ability to adapt to change successfully means survival.

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I'm reasonably sure other animals understand cause/effect stuff including when they're going to die or that they could die but I'm much less sure if they view it with the same existential dread that a lot of humans do.

Can definitely relate to staying stuck. I remember when J and I were in one of our more heated debacles about skipping the country and I told him part of the reason I was pretty much refusing was because I viewed it as an unrecoverable error (for me personally moving that far has a lot of downsides and no discernible upside). I can imagine some people consider the same about trying a different brand of tomatoes though.

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