Nothing change in your life
How strange is the life of girls, from the moment they are born, they have to grow up listening to others. Parents always say, "This one will go to someone else's house, it's not right to give priority to her." And the people next door say, "This one is someone else's girl, why should we give her so much priority? There is no such thing as respect for girls. It is very important to have something called self-respect. Maybe we break down sometimes. None of us know when danger will come in our lives. A void of not being able to get it from within works. It feels like something bad has happened to life, but we don't understand what is going to happen.
Many times you will see in various types of Huzoor Waz that if you understand the mind of the mother, it is a blessing, if you do not understand it, it is the end of the world. Girls are very emotional, your little love makes her very emotional, you see her with love for five minutes, she will promise to stay with you for 5 years, and in some cases it is seen that if you see them with a little sympathy, a little respect, she will promise to respect you for the rest of her life. Many people say that girls are selfish, girls do this and that, but I don't really understand how girls are. No one changes with a little blow. As always, girls are the offspring of mothers. They always try to keep their family, their relatives, and even their own people close to them.
When you hurt a person, that person will break from within. First of all, his trust will be broken. He may have trusted you blindly or he wanted you to be his most beloved person, but you did something that broke his trust. Even after the trust is broken, he will definitely try to be good to you, but when you slowly start hurting him, he will break completely from within. The person who was in his whole world, then that person becomes the reason for his not being good. In fact, if you cannot keep someone good, at least don't play with him. Not all girls are the same, and not all men are the same.
In some cases, it is seen that they start playing with men on their own and in some cases, it is seen that they start respecting women on their own. If we give respect to the right place, then your life will be much more beautiful. And if you choose the wrong person as your life partner to be happy in life, then I think you will never be happy. Not everyone can be happy. Life is also strange. We only look for happiness in life. To be happy, it is necessary to enjoy life, but not so much that our life will be completely ruined.
You will see some people who become silent depending on the situation. You will see some people who try to change themselves when the situation gets bad. And once they start this change, their life becomes different. Even if they want to, they can never get out of that chapter because their brain is giving them signals to change. When they constantly receive neglect from a person or a family, they try to change themselves.
I had heard some such videos or stories, but after seeing their changes, to be honest, sometimes I wonder if it is even possible, but it is possible because suffering is something that changes a person from the inside. Many people say, "I will come back, but I will come back in a way that you never imagine." But I think you should not make any decisions to show off tomorrow or to criticize someone. Life is yours. What you do with it is your sole responsibility. If you can organize your life in the right way, then maybe no one will be happier than you. And if you completely destroy your life by insisting on others, then I would say that there is no one in this world as stupid as you.
In the present time, girls are like toy dolls who play whenever they want and when the game is over, they throw it wherever they want. Maybe my words can also be related to the life stories of some of you. One thing I have noticed for several days now is that no one texts me or calls me unless it is necessary. When it is necessary, they text me or call me once or twice, but when the need is over, they don't think it is important to check up on you. They don't think it is bad. Remember everything. There is no need to tell anyone anything. Many people think that I don't see with my eyes. In fact, I see with my eyes. I also want to hear with my ears. However, they remain silent. Many people ask why I remain silent.
To tell the truth, do you know that the people in front of me are silent to see their true faces? I listen to what they say to me, I see everything, but they are still silent and I think in my heart how can these people tell such beautiful lies? The situation is very strange, so I could not change the girl, so I think it is very necessary to change my life. Sometimes I feel like being born as a girl is the biggest crime. It is okay to be born as a girl, but it would have been better to be born in a rich family. At least I could enjoy this life properly. I did not have to listen to so many people. It is difficult to understand that I have to take my own life the way people constantly talk to me. May the people of this world who are constantly giving me pain be well.