Loneliness will teach you self-discipline.
Many people consider girls like us as a burden, many people think that they are the worst part of our lives, the part where there is no love, no feelings, never. In fact, a house or a room is never complete if there is no girl in that room. Every man needs a girl in his life and if girls were only crazy about physical happiness, then maybe they would go to all men. Girls want a caring man who will give her a lot of love, they will be by her side in her illness, put his hand on her shoulder in her happiness and sorrow and say, there is no reason to worry, I am here. Girls never think about being or having to be a burden in someone's life. They always try. We at least do something. Have you ever thought about how much work it takes to work in a family?
A girl is suddenly brought from college and given to him. After marriage, responsibilities and duties start. It is not that easy to fulfill such a thing. While fulfilling the duties, one has to get ridiculed by many types of people. While fulfilling the duties, one has to hear many types of words. While fulfilling the duties, one has to hear them. Actually, nothing is done by us. Where there is no respect, there is no value of love. If it seems that your family members do not respect you, then what is the use of being there? Nowadays, people look at money and think that everything will be fine. People are not perfect in all aspects. There must be some imperfections. In some cases, it is seen that some girls become silent on their own because of having children and do not think in their hearts that the days ahead will definitely be beautiful.
I never want to be a burden in anyone's life. I will never want to be a burden in anyone's life. If a girl works in an office, at the end of the day, her salary is at least 10 to 12 thousand taka, but in a house, year after year, month after month, day after day, when a girl works hard, there is no benefit for her, rather she has to hear that she did nothing, rather she has to hear that this is not good. Why did this work happen like this? It was supposed to be better, in fact, everyone was good, but not everything good happens together. If the person ends up doing all the good, then I don't think there is any need for this good. If you want to be good, if you want to keep good, then you should definitely keep the person who has taken the responsibility of keeping you good, but we all feel burdened, everyone thinks that they are feeding us, feeding us, why should we give importance to them? A girl has come to you only to eat and study.
Where my need ends, I quietly move away. It's not now, since I learned to understand, right from that time, wherever I saw that people no longer care about me, I moved away quietly without telling anyone. I realized that I will never be important there again. It is better to move away from there. So I tried to convince myself and anyway, where there is no importance, where there is no respect, what is the use of being there? I never think about love and affection. I think about my respect. I will work and work hard all day long. I will not get any remuneration for it, rather, I will get shame, hatred and insult. In a family, a girl gets only this much, she never gets more, and many people consider it a sin to think more than this. Well, when the girl in your house goes to the next house, how do you think about keeping her? You think that your daughter's husband will be very caring and will love her a lot.
Her husband will love her a lot, her in-laws will treat her like their own daughter with a lot of love, affection, and affection, so when you get your son married and bring another girl home, have you ever thought about how to keep that girl? I know that in today's society, there are very few people who think about this. Everyone thinks about bringing a maid into the house, so keep working, but many do not find that she also has a place of respect and love. I have seen in some families that the girl does not get any peace even with her husband. She has to listen to him constantly. The man called husband is not only crazy about her body, but also crazy about her mind. He uses her when needed and throws her away when not needed. Perhaps only those who are going through every moment of this situation can understand how heartbreaking such a life is.
If someone turns away, I don't call them anymore. Because I know that I am running out of need for them, that's why they turned away. If I didn't need them anymore, they would never have turned away. Now there is no point in calling them anymore and I don't have the willpower to cover them up because I also want them to be well. If they turn away once, they will come to you again and love you like before. Never worry about that because the one who has managed to leave once is guaranteed not to leave again. We are stupid people. We think that our life will be this way or that way, but we don't think about it. No matter how life is like this, we should enjoy it and try to live a new life by letting go of the one who has left you. The one who has managed to forget you can also forget you. You also have to accept this.
I know, being forced means belittling yourself. I have thought about it more than once and have seen that being forced means belittling yourself and making yourself a laughing stock to everyone. However, in the case of a girl, you have to adapt, you have to accept it, otherwise the family breaks up. A girl tries as long as her body has the strength to sustain her family, but in some cases, even her strength is not useful because some people break it in such a way that she does not find the extraordinary power within herself. If love is one-sided, then that relationship is only the name of pain. Do not go to love someone one-sidedly because you know, when you love someone one-sidedly, but you have to suffer the pain. A person will never understand you and come to you and love you the way you want. One-sided love is much more painful.