Find and correct your own mistakes first.
In this society, there are many people like you who feel comfortable judging other people's houses, but injustice and injustice are going on in their houses, which no one can even imagine. The king does not say that the kingdom judges the kingdom, injustice is going on in the king's house. This is the point. Before blaming others, you have to solve the problems inside yourself. Before judging others, you have to judge yourself. If you cannot judge yourself, then how can you judge others? There are thousands of faults hidden inside you and me, but we are much more ready to find faults in people. We go ahead of everyone, which is not right at all. How do you imagine that everything in the world will talk about you or will talk about you? Your world is for you and another person's world is for him. He tries to live his way, you try to live your way.
Instead of showing your personality in front of everyone, first show it to yourself. Stand in front of the mirror and ask your conscience how good you are or how good you are doing. What have you done in this world, what have you not done, and what remains to be done? How much good have you done, so that you can be good in the hereafter. Judge your personality too. After doing this, you will understand what kind of person you really are. If you cannot judge your personality and keep losing to your conscience, then you will never be able to stand up. First of all, you ask your conscience whether the things you are doing are right at all, are they going in the right direction, are you on the path of truth? If your conscience answers you yes, you are on the path of truth, you are always trying to improve yourself, then I would say that of course you can stand up.
People in our society only like to find the mistakes of others, not only in the society but also in the country and in the family. If a person does something wrong, I am talking in general. If a family member does something wrong, we all blame him and say things to him that the person is completely broken from within. We tell everyone about his faults and encourage everyone in such a way that when he actually tries to move forward in society, he has to stumble again and again. Do not rush to find the mistakes of others. The urge to find the mistakes of others helps us to run as much as we run to find our own mistakes. Let me tell you one thing, there is no problem in finding the mistakes of others, but first you find out what your own mistakes are from within yourself. Only when you find out your own mistakes from within and try to correct them, then you will get the opportunity to correct the mistakes of your family members.
Our life stories can never be the same. Because everyone's story is different. In each story, there is a different person, a different character. Just as my story has nothing to do with your story, your character has nothing to do with my story. We are different people, even if we have every disease in our hands, we have been created differently. So many people say that someone looks exactly like him. How is it possible? It is not possible at all. No one can ever be like anyone else. You will definitely find some discrepancies. If one hand does not match the hand of another, then how do we think? This person is like me and how other people are walking? It is better to think about how much of my path I can walk on that path. We are all people who love imitation. I myself sometimes like to imitate people, but not anymore. I try to live my own way because I think that only if I can live my own way, then my life has meaning.
Hiding our own faults, we humans are very strange and like to hide our own faults and find faults in others. Brother, we are humans, the creator has sent me to you as the best creature on this earth. We have mistakes in us. We have to correct those mistakes. We may reach a place from which it is possible for many to return, while it is not possible for many. Some people try and some people neglect it. But hiding our faults and only revealing our virtues to people is a kind of deception. I always try to hide my mistakes and only present what I have done well in front of everyone. Is this really the work of a good person? I have asked you the question. Of course, you will tell me through the comments.
Don't go looking for the faults of others. Because when you go looking for the faults of others, you will see that your own faults will be in front of your eyes first. If your conscience is stirring you, then you can find out your mistakes yourself. No one else has the power to come and point out your mistakes. Until you understand your own mistakes, you will never get a chance to correct your mistakes. First, correct your own mistakes. It is natural for humans to make mistakes. We should not forget this, but first find out your own faults and then try to find the faults of others. If you think yourself perfect, humanity gradually disappears. Many of us think ourselves perfect.
I think there is no mistake in us, are we really saints? That's why I never think about it because I think I am human. I can make mistakes. It can be in any field. But for that, I must correct my mistakes. If we try to correct the amount of mistakes we make every day, maybe it will not end in our life. But if we think of ourselves as perfect, we will never get the opportunity to correct our mistakes. Rather, humanity will be lost from within us. Love and respect for people will be lost from within us. And if humanity is lost from within a person, he will never be able to become a human being like a human being.
I said that before, when someone in the family makes a mistake, we laugh about their mistakes, but have you ever imagined what is going to happen to you and me tomorrow? Don't laugh when you see people's mistakes,
because tomorrow you too may make a mistake. Suddenly, a person's life can be in danger and if you can overcome that danger, then only you will be successful. Instead of laughing at the mistakes of others, you should try to correct your own mistakes. Correct yourself first, first correct your own mistakes and become a self-purified person and then try to understand others. Then, people will give you importance, otherwise, people will never give you importance, rather, people will laugh at you and say, "How can someone who is full of mistakes come forward to find the mistakes of others?" In this society, a real person is the one who finds the mistakes not in others, but in himself. So before finding the mistakes of others, correct your own mistakes and then try to find the mistakes of others.