Life is cruel and can be harsh sometimes - R.I.P

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I was planning to write something exciting and amazing about my life in Almere today but unfortunately, I am going to start this post by sharing a piece of regrettable and sad news. I don't know what can be the appropriate approach or way to share this news but I want to share it because this is about a community member of Hive Blockchain. Today around 2.00 pm (14.00), @blind-spot (one of our hive members) lost his father (R.I.P). The news is very shocking and sudden. I cannot imagine what Blind-spot is going through right now, I don't have many words to say except look at him. He is a very silent and introverted type of person who carries the whole world inside him, he never shares anything with anyone and he keeps everything inside him. So, still, I don't know much about what exactly happened. All I know his father got a heart attack and died on spot at home.


We have been going through a lot so far and this news broke our hearts again especially broken Blind completely. I am seeing the pain in his eyes every single minute as I am here with him today. Whenever I heard the news, I decided to spend time with him no matter what. I know how it feels to lose parents because I have lost my mother too. Blind has been going through a lot lately, he has been fighting and struggling with his life, the Ukraine war broke him completely and now this news shattered him into pieces. Life can be bitch and so cruel and this is one of the examples among thousands.

When unfortunate tragedy happens in our life, we look for space and start feeling lonely. I was just saying to myself why now!!! Is it some kind of exam or what!!! Is the exam of tolerance and patience!!! I don't know what else can be more tragic than losing parents, home, career, and everything. Unfortunately, he can't go home because we are not allowed to leave and if he leaves he can't come back here. So, he won't be able to say goodbye to his father...


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I had a shitty day today, I started my work at 5.30 am and it was a rough and bad day. I was so sick due to the weather and kitchen environment that I couldn't finish my shift properly and I fall sick before ending my shift. I was about to faint due to weakness but somehow I had managed. But after coming into the room, I got the news and I was in shock for a couple of minutes. I am upset and unhappy thinking about why everything is happening now. Yesterday everybody was fine even today morning everything was okay and now this sudden tragedy.

War in Ukraine taught me many things and left a huge lesson for me so that's why probably I am strong enough to handle any kind of situation. Probably that is why I don't cry like before or I don't feel emotional at all. Life is cruel and I know it. So far we didn't find anything positive that will make us happy; after fleeing from the Ukraine war. A part of our life was destroyed in the war, the part we were carrying with us slowly drowning every day. After losing everything, I don't know how to show someone condolence who lost one of his parents recently...

I don't want much from life, I just hope that life should give us a break. We are suffering enough already...

Rest in Peace...


Thank you so much for reading...


Love

Priyan...


I am @priyanarc.... An architect, a dreamer, and a passionate writer who loves to write about life. I try to present my own perspective and experiences. Please leave your feedback and criticism because it's the only way I can know and reach your mind and thought easily...


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Life can really suck at times Priyan. I hope you are not catching something.
Hugging you and I feel so sorry for Blindspot, I too have lost my parents, one suddenly, it is a massive shock at the best of times. But now after what you have all gone through, I am speechless, I know we are trying to get him a laptop.
I know words are not as comforting as we like, but my thoughts are with you all, and of course your wee pup.

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Thank you so much, I really wish the best for the Blind and peace for his father... There is nothing much I can do for him except give him time and space...

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My friend @priyanarc, I am truly sorry. Sincerely, life is being very cruel to many. 💔

I pray to God with all my soul that so much tragedy will end. I understand perfectly your feelings. Much strength to you, to all those around you and to the whole world.

My heart goes out to you. Farewell to the daddy of
@blind-spot, I know he is a great friend that you appreciate so much.

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One after another, I feel like our suffering is never gonna end, it seems like that. No matter how much I try to stay strong, situations break us into pieces...

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I'm trying to find the words to write here, but it's very difficult. One shock after the other, one bigger than the previous one. If the mess caused by the war wasn't enough.

My deepest condolences to him and his family. I hope he can find the strength to get up and continue. We're here.

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Thank you Erikah, to be honest, I also don't have any words for him, I just stare at him and try my best to be with him. The moment he is having now is tough and rough and I feel no words can comfort him now except time and space... :(

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He's in my prayers. I just did a post, to inform the community and those who have contributed, also asked to give him the space and time to grieve.

Thank you for being there for him and let me know if we can help in any way. Also stay strong as I know it's difficult for you too as you've been through enough yourself!

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I will be connected with you and the entire hive community, I just hope he doesn't collapse... My fear is there...

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Thank you in advance, let's hope he's strong enough to be able to put himself together again.

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I am so sorry for him, and for you as well. So much bad happening, I keep thinking surely things will improve, but it always seems like there is bad thing waiting right around the corner.

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Thanks Paul, yes things have been difficult but I am sure we will see the good time in life again...

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So sorry to hear that. He has been through a lot of things.
I have never been in such a situation. Don't know what to say.
My condolences to him and his family!

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Thank you... He surely appreciates your kind words...

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@priyanarc
@blind-spot

I have discussed being raised by women many times throughout my blockchain presence. A Mom who had MS, and worked three different jobs. Just so we could have those basic yet important things in life; food... a roof over our head... electricity. During the time my Mom was away, I was raised by my grandmother... a wonderful, loving, and kind woman that lived through the Great Depression. My grandfather was also a loving and kind man... he, too, having lived through the Great Depression, was in very poor health. He passed away when I was very young. Many years later, my Mom called to inform me of the passing of my grandmother. You might ask what this has to do with your post or the passing of @blind-spot's father. But I would lovingly say this...


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We are all on our own journey in life. All we are... are the memories that we take with us along the way. Good... bad... these memories are ours. As you see above, I am continuing the journey of my grandmother and grandfather, by sharing "their" story, with you. So in this... there are still with me. So too... will the memories of blind-spot's father continue. I hope that we will be fortunate enough, to be able to relive these memories with him. Sending prayers, comfort, healing, and most importantly... condolences... to everyone that has been touched by this loss.

For blind-spot...

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!LUV

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This somehow made me feel peaceful in a very long time. You have lost the ones closest to you and kept their memories alive and thus also them. At least in your heart and by the way you lead your life. I guess that is how we stay alive forever, by the things we did, and how we are rememebered, and the things and knowledge left for the ones coming after us.

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@blind-spot

I'm glad I was able to give you some comfort and peace. Much love your way brother.

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Sorry , i should have wrote my comment here , i dont know which ones you look more easily , but i thought of something and give you my hivefest ticket to your friend and since you have one you could both go together and change your head .
I can do that for you . I hope he is hanging there 🫶🏻

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You have an empathic heart for your friend, and I pray Peace and Comfort be with him right now. Same goes to you @priyanarc :)

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You said
I don't want much from life, I just hope that life should give us a break. We are suffering enough already...

This, sister

You tell truth

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