Behind Every Smile, There's A Story
We are strong even when we are weak
Good evening everyone on Ladies of Hive
I just want to talk about how strong we ladies are these days.
These days, I keep thinking about how strong we women are. Sometimes you see a woman smiling, laughing, and going about her day, but deep inside she is not really okay or happy. I have come to realize that many of us carry a lot in our hearts, yet we still show up every day like everything is fine.
I remember a day, a few days ago, when I went out and tried to act normal. I was talking to people, smiling, and doing the usual things, but inside I felt very tired, exhausted, and overwhelmed at the same time. There were so many thoughts running through my mind, and I just wanted a quiet moment to breathe and be alone. No one around me could tell what I was going through, but a lot was going on in my mind.
When I got back home that day, I sat down quietly and started thinking about everything happening around me. That was when it really hit me how strong women are. We go through so much, but we still find a way to stand up, to smile, and to continue life. Even when our hearts are heavy, we keep moving.
I also realized that strength does not always mean being happy all the time. Sometimes strength is waking up even when you feel like staying in bed, even when you are too weak to talk. It is going out even when you feel like hiding and not talking to others. It is smiling when your heart is not smiling.
As women, we are strong in ways that people may not always see. We carry responsibilities, emotions, and expectations, and still try to balance everything every day. And even though it is not always easy, we still keep going.
I want to remind every woman reading this that what you are going through is valid. You are allowed to feel tired. You are allowed to take a break. But most importantly, you are stronger than you think, even on the days when you don’t feel like it.
Thank you to every lady that stopped to read.