Be Happy in Other's Success

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"Be happy in other's success"__ this is the exact saying I have been hearing and swallowing since childhood but believe me the more I tried to follow this saying the more I became hopeless, frustrated and tired not because I can't feel happiness in other's success but because by adoring someone reminds me all the things I did in my past which became hindrance in the path of my dreams.

Does it make me a selfish kind of person who can't be happy in other's achievements???
Maybe yes or maybe no but I know that I'm not this 'said' kind of person.
Though Whenever I try to adore someone because of their achievements rather than simply appreciating them for the same thing, my fears , insecurities starts to possess both my mind and body with their dark and indistinguishable clutch.

Is it really hard to be happy in other's success???

This question hits my brain like small but strong but pointy Peebles still I never tried to ask to any other human being simply because I fear that instead of getting the answer I will be part of their funny comments and opinions so early and late I seeks the answers of all my weird questions in nature because they will never make fun of me just like the other people does.

Answers to our all questions are present in nature, we just need to find out them.
Nature has taught me that it is not tough or impossible to feel happy in other's success as long as you accept yourself with all your flaws and know what you are carrying inside you.

Everything present in nature are different from each other so does we, this is the exact thing where magic and uniqueness prevails.
Maybe some of us are not good at academics but are great in painting and vice versa.
Above all we all have some flaws but this flaws makes us who we are in reality and unique at the same time.

If we start to accept and appreciate ourself with all our flaws instead of knocking us down just because we are different from someone we aspire to be magic will happen unbeknownst to you.

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Every flower present in nature is different in terms of color, design, members of petals, size even after having differences they all looks beautiful in their own way so does we .
The moment we accept and appreciate ourself ,we start to grow, we start to heal.

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Nature is more amazing and understanding than it seems we just need to listen to them.
Spending time with nature can make one's life sweeter than honey, smoother than butter, more beautiful than the full moon with it's beauty and charishma.
Maybe this is why once a great person said, " Every flower is a soul blossoming in nature" .

Accept yourself first if you want to be happy in and satisfied in life because there is no good remedy than accepting oneself.

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Thank you sooo much for giving your time and showing me your support, I really appreciate it.

All photos I used are mine except lead image (created by me using Canva)



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Isn't it funny, I have never heard of the saying, "Be happy in others' Success," before today. It's a nice little saying. I don't know that it would be something I'd want to live by though.

Your take on it is much better. Perhaps yours would read, "Be happy in others' success once you're happy in your own." It's much more comfortable that way. You're less likely to feel bad when feelings of envy or resentment surface because happiness comes when you can accept and appreciate your own bounty first.

Ah, well, that's my twopence worth. I hope you're enjoying your Hive experience so far. 💛

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