Forgive others, don't forget yourself.,,, My Actifit Report Card: June 22 2026

Assalamu Alaikum,
I hope you are all well, healthy and finding a little peace in every moment of your life.

Today I want to share a thought with you that comes from my own experiences and understanding. The saying is—
“Forgive others again and again, but never forgive yourself.”

When you first hear it, it may seem a little difficult, even strange. We usually learn—we have to forgive everyone, even ourselves. But the reality of life is often not as simple as the rules in the book.

I have seen that we forgive people again and again. Someone makes a mistake, hurts us, breaks up a relationship—and yet with time we give them space again. Because as humans, our hearts are soft, we want to move forward, leave the past behind.

But when it comes to our own mistakes, we do the exact opposite. Sometimes we forgive ourselves very quickly, and sometimes we carry that mistake for the rest of our lives. Both of these actually harm us equally.

I am not saying to punish ourselves by saying “never forgiving”. I am saying—not forgetting one's mistakes. Because the moment we forgive our mistakes too easily, that moment we create an opportunity to make the same mistake again.

As humans, we have weaknesses, emotions, and mistakes in decisions—it is natural. But remembering those mistakes and changing yourself little by little every day is the real improvement. Developing a relationship with yourself where I am kind to myself, but at the same time truthful.

Forgiving others enlarges our minds, and remembering our own mistakes strengthens our future. The balance of these two makes a person complete.

In the end, I will only say this—
Forgive people, because they are human.

But do not avoid your own mistakes, because that is where the beginning of your change lies.

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