The sad part of having an OFW husband is when vacation is over. Dropping him at the airport.

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Last month, January 27 to be exact, my husband went back abroad as his vacation was over. Just like that when our son was used to having him around and enjoying their bonding. Even though I felt sad about it, the harsh truth is that we need to sacrifice. Yes he could work here but the salary won't be enough to cover our expenses. The sad reality of life.

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SEE? Even the sky sympathized with me while we were traveling to the airport. I can't help but to think it was only yesterday when we picked him up.

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The weather was gloomy and the rain drizzled perfectly, blending with what our heart feels. Halfway of the journey our son Caleb fell asleep in my arms so I got the pillow I brought and laid him down.

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Peak season was over, no traffic arrived earlier than the estimated time at the airport.

Husband decided to check in first, then we will be eating lunch. Caleb was used to always going out with his Daddy for a while?

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He ran and kept on tailing. From weighing the luggage up to lining up at the counter. He was even grinning, laughing while playing with the luggage. Maybe in his young mind he would be going with him like the previous days.

These scenes make my heart ache. What more in the next few years? Perhaps he would be crying already.

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To give his Dad time I carried him up and gave a bottle of milk. After we are done feeding my husband finished checking in.

We decided to go up to eat but sadly NAIA terminal 3 is under renovation. Mcdo was the only choice when I asked one of the security personnel.

I wasn't able to take some photos as I let Caleb watch Youtube on my phone so we could eat.

Here comes the sad part, the temporary goodbyes 😩.

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In Fairness to the government, there is a bluelane - separate immigration solely for OFW's. They could avoid long lines.

In the previous years, seeing my husband off makes me cry. Now? Somehow I didn't as I couldn't imagine what I look like while crying and chasing my toddler. 🤣. Kidding aside, his mother and one of my SIL was there so I tried my best as I don't want them to see me cry.

That's the weird attitude of me. I don't like being seen by someone I know crying. It feels like my reputation has been tainted.

For now, I was back to the old routine. Just me and my son at home and looking forward to seeing his Daddy before 2026 ends.

Lead image was edited using Canva
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Thank you

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Just save your tears when nobody is around🤣. Kaya ayaw KO mghatid or mgpahatid minsan coz it only brings pain and sadness😒

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You're right, better travel alone

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Always the saddest part of being an OFW. And it never gets easier. The more you do it, the sadder and more frustrating it gets, because the question, "Why can't I just stay," is always there hanging in the air. God bless your family.

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Exactly the thought and the if ONLY

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It is tragic seeing families have to live apart. I can only presume that this is necessary for the financial future of your family. I am sure he is quite sad about it as well but in the end it will be for the best, i hope.

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It is as if he would work here salary is only enough to survive daily needs.

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Same here, I also don’t want people see me crying. Safety travels for your husband!🙂

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Thanks!
It's so humiliating right? 🤣

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Yes totally! Hehe so embarrassing🤭

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How long will he be away? Good thing with technology nowadays, communications are very accessible via the internet, at least. :)

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He can go home every year , so it's basically 11 months.

Ah yes, thanks to technology. On his part we installed cctv at home so he could see and monitor us anytime. That is for him not to worry

Aside, we talked daily via video call.

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So relatable...reading this made me also reminisced the times when my husband leaves us for good..
There were times I convinced my husband not to work abroad anymore,and start seeking job here in the Philippines,but he always insisted..

The sadness was just temporary,soon when the perfect time comes,you'll be in a complete and happy fam again🤗😍

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Does your husband still works abroad?

You know how income here, yes we could survive but that means both of us should work.

Currently, it's hard as our son is only one year and half

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@lhes yes he's still working..
That pushes my husband too..to work abroad,di magkasya ang salary sa Isang Buwan kaya ayun bagong panganak pa lang ako nun na nag work sya abroad,sa awa ng Dyos nka yanan nmn lahat until my daughter reached 4 yrs old...

In your situation din it's really hard knowing that the kid is very close to his father na...

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That sacrifices, I only visited my husband abroad, the got pregnant.

I was alone during the whole pregnancy and giving birth.
He went home our son was already 6months

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It's the bravest thing a mother could do...good thing he's home ..big na si baby excited cguro makita for the first time anak nya..
I salute you for having such a brave heart...

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