✨ Friendships that last through time / Amistades que perduran en el tiempo ✨[ENG|ESP]
Best regards Hive community. 👋👽
Un saludo cordial comunidad de Hive. 👋👽
What a valuable and cherished thing are those friendships that last through the years, even decades. To the point that they are almost like brothers and sisters.
Que cosa más valiosa y apreciada son esas amistades que permanecen a lo largo de los años, incluso de décadas. Al punto de que casi son como hermanos y hermanas.
For me, the word friendship is sacred. For me to consider someone as a friend, a lot of time and a lot of things have to happen. Without exaggerating, I only have 5 friends and I am more than satisfied. I have always been someone sociable and outgoing, I get along well with dozens of people, but between that and a friendship, there is an abyss of difference.
I have always been very surprised by those people who call anything a "friend". I don't mean to judge other people's relationships, but how can you consider someone you barely know a friend? Someone you don't fully trust. That's why I think many people use the word "friend" simply for people they like. That's why I think people actually have fewer true friends than they think.
I am fortunate to have lived almost all my life with two people from Infancia. We spent childhood, puberty, adolescence and now youth together. They are Juan and Brian and we have known each other since elementary school. And although we sometimes disagree and sometimes think very differently, we have always been very close friends. To the point of knowing very intimate things about each other, of being together in very difficult moments and helping each other whenever someone needs it.
It's crazy to think of everything I went through with these people. Birthdays, Christmases, boozy nights out, etc. And obviously, also bad times. Bereavements, depressions, heartbreaks, etc. For the good and the bad, I always count on this group. For example, when my mom went through cancer last year, they were always there for me. This is something I appreciate and value very much.
The reality is that life is unpredictable. If it were up to me, these friendships would be forever. Although there are things that could happen that one could not control. Maybe one of the 3 of us has to move, maybe one of us drifts apart because of life, maybe there's a fight, etc. So I try to enjoy these friendships as long as they last.
It sounds a little corny, but the right choice of friends can improve your life. If you have a miserable and lacking life, the right friendships can alleviate and improve the hard times. That's why I feel so sad for people who don't have friends, because it's like not having a support, not having a place to lean on.
Thank you very much for reading my blog. It is a pleasure to share with you. I look forward to posting in this community in the future. I send you all a big hug and hope you are having a good day.❤️💛
Muchas gracias por leer mi blog. Es un placer compartir con ustedes. Espero poder publicar en esta comunidad en un futuro. Les mando un fuerte abrazo a todos y espero que estén teniendo un buen día. ❤️💛
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It's true, we can say that we have many friends, even if they are just people we get along with, but a true friend is someone who understands you is sincere and will support you in good and bad times also. You are lucky to have your true friends by your side :)
I have moved country, so I don't see many times the friends from my childhood.
I'm sorry you had to move away from your friends. I hope you get to see them again soon and that bond is not lost despite the distance.
Thank you so much for taking the time to read and comment.
Best regards! 💋
Yes, we meet once a year, so it is also good to catch up on the things ;)
Son como mis amigos y yo, se ve que se divierten mucho, esas amistades que algunos ven extraños son los mejores, saludos
La pasamos bien, estamos mal de la cabeza jaja.
Gracias por leer y comentar.
Saludos.