Fun Time With Aya's Friend: Navigating Her World And Allow Her To Grow. Trusting The Process In Her Journey.

Hello Mommies! How are you today? Hope everything is ok with you and your family.

We have an amusement park here in the town. A celebration for for Komarno days. Just now I post my blog because of important things I need to accomplish. My daughter Aya asked me if I could go to the amusement park with his friend. It will be so much fun because different rides for kids and young at heart are there. And other activities too. It sounded fun- it will be a day of laughter, rides, and to make memories with someone her age.

Aya asked me if she could be alone with his friend. They're closed and she's one of the boys my Aya. But the thing was if I could say yes, honestly my heart hesitated. I did not respond right away and I responded to her. I need to think first. That simple request of her awaken all my instincts and emotions.

Like it's an amusement park and I know Aya loves it and I'm just afraid something might happen. Or will she be ok without me? Or how she will handle herself without me. She is 11 years old by the way, and still she is my baby.

You know I need some time and what she did, She called her dad. And without any hesitation, he has her permission that it's ok. But make sure you're safe, use your mind, you can enjoy but don't forget to take care of yourself.

Aya was so happy and said mama dad allowed me. I called my husband and said, "It's all ok with you. He just answered me, yes of course as long as she will take care of herself and she needs to learn. Don't worry she will be fine, he said to me.

You know as a mom we are thinking too much. And my heart wasn’t at peace. So I told my daughter ok I will allow you but in one condition. If it's ok I will come and look for you??? I will not join you and I just want to see you ok. And she said to me, thanks mama, Ok you will come. We went together in the town and when his friend came there I saw her big smile. She is so happy that we allowed her.

They rode the Pirate Ship and the Crazy Dance. Aya had the time of her life. Watching her makes me realize that my baby is really grown up. I didn’t stay long and its enough to see her smiling, safe and having fun with his friend

This experience really taught me what motherhood really means.
We have rules and say yes or no in what they ask. Motherhood is not like that. It's also my daughter's emotion about how she will care and learn to trust us parents.

It’s about time to give her space. Not all the space she wants, of course we still have guidance. Aya spent hours in the town and that hours she had space and knew her responsibilities, especially taking care of herself even without us.

Its our journey together. My husband reminded me that we need to work together to love, guide and support her journey. Not just in school but also the things she decides for herself. And I thank my husband for always being there in parenting.

As mothers, we are the ones who think a few steps ahead, so much in our hearts. And we just need to trust them and give them joy. Even I just stayed a few minutes and let them enjoy the day. My love and care is always there. Allowing her to enjoy the amusement park was learning to navigate her world. Aya was practicing her independence, being happy with others and free. She needs to learn that trust cannot gain in one day, it takes moments and choice in life.

I'm so proud of her because she handled everything responsibly. And she's alone it she's growing as a person.

Watching her enjoy and navigate the world without me by her side reminded me that part of loving our children is preparing them for independence while staying grounded in care and communication. Moments like this stretch us as parents, gently pushing us to balance protection with trust.

This also reminds me that listening to her is so important. I have worries but we need to talk about everything, especially her emotions. And also wants to have open communication and be honest.

To all moms reading this. Sometimes It’s okay to feel torn. It’s all okay wanting to protect our kids and also want to give freedom. Our feelings are the same Mommies, You’re not alone.

In the end, I'm saying yes to her even with hesitation. I’m glad I trusted her. It reminds me that she’s growing, and so am I.