Road To Serenity!

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I think it would be very selfish of me if I kept my walks and healing walks to myself, so this time I was accompanied by my mom, who is going through the same mourning as me and perhaps even more painful, because it was her husband who departed from this world. This Wednesday began as an errand at the mayor's office to continue the paperwork left by the death of the owner of the house, but it has ended up as one of the most pleasant walks I have had all year.


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When we left the town hall I saw the beautiful garden and I told my mom that it would be a good idea to walk to the house, since on the way we could see many flowers and vegetation and even though it was a very hot day there was a lot of breeze. The most important thing was my intention to show her a good time, I gave her an ice cream and we decided to take the longest and greenest route to our home.


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As I imagined, we came across many flowers of different colors, highlighting the red, fuchsia, yellow and white that contrasted with the rural landscape of the nearby buildings and houses. This area is in my home state of Aragua, it is called Turmero and we have lived very close to the center for 28 years. It was so pleasant to remember anecdotes of our beginnings, since my mom did not even remember that we arrived at our house in 1995, besides it was inevitable to talk about my dad, who until now is still the owner of our home until we finish making these arrangements.


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I don't know if you can see that butterfly in the picture above. I spent about ten minutes trying to take the best picture, but I don't have the best camera. I usually don't have the best patience either hahaha, but this time the walk had me relaxed. It was very nice for me to discover in our conversation that my mom has also decided to take walks to clear her head or to think things through, I knew that this could not be just a need of mine. When there is so much pain in the soul the best thing to do is to go for a walk for a while to calm the mind...


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Obviously the closer we got to our house the less wonders we saw on the way, but despite being ecstatic with the flowers and the breeze that caressed us I think the best result was to arrive home with a smile from ear to ear, although at the beginning of Wednesday we only had in mind that we would spend a strong day in the government offices. There is nothing better than wanting to change the environment around us with a good attitude, and these days being able to put a smile on my mom's face has become my greatest treasure...


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Thanks for joining the Wednesday Walk :)

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It will always be a pleasure to pass by this community, every Wednesday I think about scheduling a perfect ride, today has been one of those good days my brother...

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hello dear friend @jesuslnrs
I am very sorry for your loss, I hope that her mother is mentally well after what has happened
beautiful walk, you have taken beautiful photographs.
I appreciate you sharing this walking experience.

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This community has been therapeutic for me, just after the death of my dad. It has been six months and we have already started to calm down. I will take advantage of the August vacations to be with my family. Thanks to you for visiting my post...

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Tu Padre siempre estará como tema de conversación entre ustedes. De esa manera siempre lomantendrán vivo. Recuerda la película "Coco"...
Bendiciones para tí y tu bella madre, apreciado amigo Jesús.

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Como músicos que somos la película Coco suele ser muy fuerte para mí en este momento jeje. No me atrevo a verla aún, aunque en mi comunidad Hive Open Mic tuve que escuchar una importante canción de ahí varias veces las últimas dos semanas en la ronda de curación. Prácticamente todo el día hablamos de papá ahora, sigue muy presente. Agradezco que visitaras mi post...

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Thank you friends, you always have wonderful news for me...

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You're welcome @jesuslnrs, it's well deserved! Congrats on your constant involvement on Hive 😊👍

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It's not easy to take a photo of a butterfly :D

Good to see you walking with your mom 😇

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Now I value the time I spend with her more. Thank you very much for your visit, dear friend, and you are absolutely right, butterflies are terrible for photos, they don't let me get too close hahaha...

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Your walks after your dad's physical departure remind me of a time in my life when I went through a couple's bereavement, where I took long walks to avoid coming home and locking myself in. I used to sit in squares, parks and in the green areas of the university, spending hours and hours watching people pass by, detailing nature, looking at the sky and having monologues with myself... it's not the same grief obviously, but they are certainly stages that lead us to be more intuitive, observant, introspective and to value anything that life offers us while we heal.

I know how much you have evolved in spite of the pain and how you have managed within the chaos, to stand firm to also support your mom who by the way looks beautiful in the pictures 🌹❤️. I am so happy to see you together sharing in the midst of the obligations.

I send you a big hug brother, God bless you, I love you very much 🙏💖..... You Rockkk!!! 👊😎🔥❤️

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Intuitivo, observador e introspectivo, así mismo es Fernando. Me ha quedado claro que hay muchos tipos de duelo, pero todos son muy dolorosos. Si tú como profesional aplicaba esto pues me atrevo a decir que estoy en un buen camino. Últimamente estoy muy sorprendido incluso de la gente a mi al rededor, he aprendido quien es real y quien no, quienes están y quienes no.

Estoy comenzando mis primeras vacaciones desde diciembre de 2021. Desde ese entonces no he parado y la vida sí que me ha dado duro, así que aprovecharé este mes de agosto para complementar mucho de lo que he aprendido el último año. Ya tengo varios meses de cambios, incluso aquí en Hive hay muchos cambios para mí, influyendote con tu noticia sorpresa que llegó en un momento crucial, pero nada es definitivo. Siempre hay que seguir adelante y el que quiere estar bienvenido sea. Me alegra que todos los abrazos virtuales entre nosotros sean sinceros hermano. Te quiero mucho...

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omg, what beautiful flowers and what a nice garden, so neat and well cared for, I love it when people take care of nature so well and what a quality of the camera, it allows you to see even better the details. I loved the pictures, it may not be the best camera as you say but I see them very nice hehe.

And how nice of you to give your mom a nice moment, you are right that going for a walk and taking some time to reflect helps to calm the pain, blessed both of you 😍

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Hello friend, amen! My mom has always been a treasure to me, but now she has increased her value by being left alone. She deserves the best and I ask God to give me the tools to make her happy. In fact, he has just returned to Hive, so he will also find healing through written expression. If you want to meet her, her username is @zorajr...

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