This is what I do if someone gives me something that isn't worth it

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Hello friends #hive all how are you today and I hope you are all always in good health

Greetings to all of us in this beloved community, today I am back in front of my eyes to share stories about Undeserved Giving. Before continuing to the discussion, first of all I would like to thank the Hive Learners community for giving me the opportunity to take part in this contest. As we all know, this week is the 49th week of the third edition of the contest in this beloved community.


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We see that in many places there are good people who are willing to share regardless of who they are giving to, and in my opinion this is a very extraordinary act because in this day and age there are also many people who do not care about other people even now starting a little there are people who are willing to share with others if there is no special reason against them.

Life is indeed very complicated, sometimes people we don't know come suddenly and they give us gifts even though we don't need these gifts, maybe there are people who are happy to get them and there are also the opposite and it goes back to who they give, but If it's about me, maybe what I'm going to do is not much different from other friends in this community.

For example, if someone came up to me and gave something to me, and of course I didn't know that person, maybe at first I was very confused because the item he gave was, say, an item that was not useful for me, of course at the same time it became it's quite difficult to decide whether I should accept it or not but still the kindness of others I can't refuse it. Even though the items he gave were useless for me, I would still accept them with a smiling face and of course I would also like to thank him.


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In this category again, who is willing to give this item to me. For example, if I don't know the person, maybe I will refuse because I am a person who does not accept other people's gifts without knowing who that person is, because that person might give me something that is detrimental to me and that person might trap me, so I will be careful. - be careful about that especially the goods he gave are not at all worthy of me. If indeed a stranger comes up to me and gives me some things of course I will talk to him nicely and I will refuse in a smooth way that presumably doesn't hurt my answer, and maybe I will say that "maybe it would be better for you to give goods to other people who need it more.

Maybe if I answered with clear reasons for refusal, the person would not be offended by my refusal. To be honest, I was very afraid of strangers trying to give me things, even though the person had no malicious intent, I still didn't accept it easily. If people I know come up to me and give me some things suddenly, maybe I won't hesitate to accept them, even though those things don't deserve me at all, because it could be that at that time, the things they gave me I don't need right now, maybe they are. then one day i will need it.


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All of my explanations above are related to items that are useful even though they are not suitable for me to use but it is different if you are given something that is not useful at all. For example, an insane person comes up to me and gives me something that is useless and I can't accept it even though I know that person, and the name of an insane person still doesn't feel offended so maybe if I refuse directly maybe he won't be offended and I sure that person will find someone else to give him something he wants to give it.

Maybe the conclusion that I can draw in this discussion is something that is given by another person that I don't deserve, then my actions are twofold, if a stranger comes to give something to me then I will refuse even though something he gave is useful for me, and If someone I know gives me something in the form of goods, I will accept it even though the item is not suitable for me to use at that time. But it's different with an insane person if an insane person gives something to me and that item is completely undeserved to receive maybe I will refuse with some good conversation that I hope he doesn't throw the thing in his hand in my face. LOL

Alright friends, maybe today that's all I can tell you in this discussion and if there are mistakes in writing I apologize profusely because I wrote in my regional language, namely Indonesian with the help of Google to translate into English. and that's all from me until we meet again in the next discussion, of course in this extraordinary community.


NOTE : I write in Indonesian with the help of Google to translate to English


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About me

My full name is Edi Suryadi, many friends on hive platforms call my name Idayrus, I come from the country of Indonesia which is especially located in Aceh Province, I was born in 1997 until now I have completed my education in college with a bachelor's degree in Science Communication. I like interesting and unique things and I am also a photography and art lover and new things so on this beloved platform I will share about photography, art, traveling and other interesting things.


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Your points are valid, you have really said well. Kudos friend

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