Living your life

In a bid to try to please people, we most times end up living our lives according to others' contrived definitions and not according to our own definition of life and the painful part is when we realize that these set of people do not even know we exist or even care about us.

It is high time we learn to come out and free ourselves from judgemental people and define for ourselves what is our own definition of success and morals because whatever the result of our choices, those people whom we are trying to please aren't the ones that are going to live with outcome or result of our choices, we are the one that is going to bear the brunt, whether good or bad.

Other people are not going to live with the results of our choices, we are. So why should we want to live according to their contrived definition of success and what is moral? It should be our choices, our cross, and not their choices, our cross to bear.

When it is our choice, our cross to bear, it makes it easier for us to bear the consequences of our choices and become responsible for our choices and actions, it makes life easier for one to navigate.

In this life, don't try living your life to please anyone because nobody deserves that aspect of your life except you, so walk out of judgemental people, because they know to make one live in their world