Hushing My Thoughts: A Visit To A Familiar Place
Hello, #HiveWorld, #Aseanhive Fellas! I have not published in a long time in the community, therefore this is my debut doing so.
When my intellectually and physically challenged son, whom I cared for twenty-four years, died last November of 2023, my life became bleak and blue. I lost my appetite for life until some form of disease struck me since I was no longer vigilant about what I ate and occasionally ate late.
A few days after I was discharged from the hospital, a buddy visited and encouraged me to go for a walk/jog to a nearby town to enjoy the beautiful scenery and get away from the daily hustle and bustle of my hometown.
He brought me to the University of the Philippines campus at Los Baños, where all I could see was a shade of green allowing my thoughts to hush. The setting on campus is breathtaking, and the edifices that surround it are exquisite.
A Little Background Of Los Baños Laguna And The University Of The Philippines
In 1589, Fr. Pedro Bautista established public baths and dubbed the place Los Baños, which means "bathing places" in Spanish.
The State University is located at the foot of Mt.
Maria Makiling, an inactive volcano. UPLB is known to better serve Filipinos and humanity as a whole, and is dedicated to expanding knowledge and teaching students in the disciplines of science, technology, agriculture, forestry, veterinary medicine, and other fields.
Going back to a favourite site might nevertheless provide an enjoyable feeling of solitude. It's as if the two wonderful moments, remembering and prevailing, are inseparable by a strand of brightness.
For decades after work, I used to walk here with a chum. People who enjoy walking around the University grounds will find a great spot at the Maria Makiling Gazebo and the Thai Pavillion which are close to the football pitch and sinking field, now called Freedom Park and also the gigantic Carillon. You can also bring mats if you wish or simply lie down and feel the earth while admiring the beautiful sky from afternoon till dusk.
As we strolled,
we snapped some pictures. The Maria Makiling's Gazebo and rest area, the mythical Palma Bridge where most of the students claimed that they saw a white lady at night, SEARCA my previous workplace - one of the spectacular edifices inside the campus, the UPLB Library that you can find in an elevated area in the heart of the campus between SEARCA Building and the Institute of Biological Sciences, then to where the Oblation was erected in front of the College of Arts and Sciences Building. I also snapped the lush trees and bushes around the campus. The sight captivated my soul.
When the sorrow, thoughts, and forces of darkness have passed, there comes a sense of calm. There is a sense of silence that is like an ocean at peace. That it has no association with anything other than itself, but is so powerful that it remains intact.
As the day deepened, the colors of the place became more vibrant and brightening. Mother Nature and the Divine provide uncomplicated, fair, and everyday gifts that will eternally nourish sweet recollections.
Thank you, @justinparke and family for your unwavering support and understanding when I was at my lowest moment in life.
Thank you for swinging by and checking out the post. Catch you on my next blog.
Namaste,
@diosarich💖
About The Author
A feisty artist and writer who balances her time penning poetry, soul-stirring content and flash fiction, sketching, and designing by using fresh blossoms, needlework, gardening, baking, and caring for her partially impaired vision Mom after her intellectually and physically challenged son passed away. She explores unexpected views that ignite her zest for life.
That is a good stroll, Sis. Just accept the Unacceptable with your sons passing. Where ever he was, he do not want you to be for sure
Thank you, Sis. I accepted the reality that he's now gone but the pain lingers every day. It's not easy for now, but God will help me alleviate the pain.
He is now in heaven and nothing to worry anymore. It's your time to be with yourself, your mother, your daughter and grandchildren.
Thanks for your concern, Sis. I know that my son is now happy with our Creator. He is now free of any physical pain and I am glad. I just missed my son every day. 🥺
Normal ma miss natin mahal sa buhay buhay o patay
Tama is, Sis. Salamat ❤️
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It's really hard ate, I know our Love one's are now with our creator, no more worries no more pains.... In time we will heal from our grief. Let's celebrate life, their life... Your son and my mother-in-law's too.
You are correct, dear. Let's celebrate life. Theirs and ours. For a mother like me, it's really hard to move forward easily especially since we have been together day and night for 24 years and in just a snap of fingers he was lost in my sight. The hurt is immense each day. I don't know how long I can endure the pain. It deepens each day.
Love the greeneries, so relaxing.
It's true, Ate. It's so relaxing. It soothes the spirit. 💖 I love it there. So serene. 🙂
Sorry about your son, it must be so hard on you. But how are you now? It is just recently ha, I hope you are okay now. And I'm sure too that you enjoy your walk that day on that place. This is whats amazing if you are surrounded woth nature. It can be a mood booster too.
Hi, dear. I am still faring with his passing. My son gave me the energy to survive my life's journey. That is why it's hard for me to easily move on. Thanks to my buddy he knows how to console my grief. Thanks, dear. 🌷
It is a very nice place. Maybe students are enjoying their vacant time. Sorry for your son 😇. Anyway, who is with you Ate, I think you have a date Po. I saw a hand of a man in your photos🙂.Is he your photographer🫣
The campus is very conducive to enjoying nature while studying. The weather in UP Los Baños is like that in Tagaytay or Marilog, Davao City. Windy and chilly especially in the cold season of December to February.
Ah, he is a long-time chum. He was my date.. Hahaha 😍🤗😊
Nag treaking Ako sa Mt Apo binata pa Ako ganyan siguro kalamig ano.
Wow,having date is an inspiration and help your pain of losing your son. Good luck Ate baka forever mo Po yan. Friend turn into more than friend.
Mas malamig sa Mt. Apo. 14 centigrade lng pinakamalamig dun. 😊
Nope. He has been a buddy since I was in my 30's🤗.
Long lasting friendship is better. I was betrayed by my friends whom I helped but God has a plan why it happened Po Ate.. mahirap hanap Ng tunay na kaibigan. I had then, wrong choice of friend.
God sends us people to teach us important life lessons.
I've been betrayed numerous times. When someone you trust betrays you, it sucks. Tough times are when you may put your friendship to the test. Those who stay with you can undoubtedly be regarded as friends. Have no fear, you still have a long way to go. God will give the genuine ones, which you will cherish for the rest of your life. They are really hard to come by. 🤗💖
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I can relate to your woes having 2 siblings who went ahead of me. It hurts so much but it's their fate. Like your CJ, there's no more pain to be endured so let it be. Masakit pero sadyang ganito ang buhay ng tao. I know you're a strong woman my dear. Cry if you feel like crying to ease the pain....
Yes. I already cried a river though the pain lingers. It's difficult to lose a child especially when you are inseparable. Nakakapanibago at nakakaMiss. Masakit sa loob. I pray that I will get through this. Not that I want to forget him, but I want him to rest in peace completely. I know he does not want me to be unhappy... Thank you, Sis, for the boost. God bless you too. 💖
I am sorry to hear about the loss of your son. I am sure that is something that is extremely difficult to deal with :(
To be honest, I'm still feeling lost. I took care of him for 24 years because he had Epileptic Cerebral Palsy. We visited the hospital frequently while he was still alive due to his illness. Even though I acknowledged the possibility of losing him at any time, it still surprised me when he died abruptly. The pain hangs on me. I don't even know where to begin without him. I'm not sure how long will I endure this suffering, but I need to get on with my life @gabe.radke. Life is lovely, but not always fair. Only God has complete knowledge of everything. Thanks for swinging by.
Oh that's so terrible. My thoughts are with you and I hope that you can find the strength to carry on. I can't even imagine what it is like dealing with this pain on a daily basis :(
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Very touching story and sorry for your lost. I feel the same when my dad died. The next day is not the same like they are still alive. But I like the place here can relieve sadness and stress.