Cold coffee tastes better when it doesn’t have to mean anything. It just sits there, sweating slowly in my lap, lid a little warped, straw tilting left like it gave up halfway through trying to stand straight. I don’t drink it for energy anymore. Sometimes I don’t even finish it. I just like holding it. Like it’s a little ritual I do to remind myself that not everything needs a reason. Mornings used to begin with alarms, inboxes, caffeine as fuel. Now, they begin when I say so, with plastic lids and no ceremony. My body, curled into the seat, feels more awake when nothing is expected of it. No one waiting, no meeting, just me and this absurd little cup that became a quiet symbol for choosing stillness over speed.
Some days I let the outside pass by like a soft slideshow. A car window doesn’t need to be open for you to feel the shift in air. That bus wasn’t mine. Didn’t know where it was headed. Didn’t care. But I watched it go anyway. The driver, the route, the small black letters on its side—all meaningless, but somehow beautiful. We spend so much time reaching, grasping, saving. What if we just watched more? Let things slip away without fighting. Minimalism, to me, isn’t lack. It’s release. Letting the world breathe without clutching at every detail. The sky that afternoon wasn’t particularly stunning, but it didn’t have to be. It just was. And I let it be. That felt like enough.
Laughter sounds different at night, especially when you don’t need it to prove you’re having fun. That bar wasn’t special, nor was the wine. It was red, too sweet, and I drank it slowly because there was nowhere to go. Her jacket brushed my arm and we talked about nothing with absolute joy. No photos. No plans. No timestamp. Just red light, glass rings on the table, her voice slipping between songs. I love moments like that—unkept and unclaimed. Not every pleasure has to be wrapped in meaning. Some are just meant to blur a little, to slide across your memory without needing to be captured. There’s a pleasure in letting a night be ordinary.
Buying less didn’t change my life. But it gave me space. Space to think, to notice, to feel stupid things deeply. A chipped mug became my favorite because it fits my hand like it was made for me. One lamp, one playlist, a plant I don’t even know the name of. That’s the stuff I keep around. I don’t purge to feel superior. I just stop adding things that speak louder than I want to listen. Silence feels good now. Like breathing without armor. I don’t miss the clutter. I miss the person I was before I needed it. That girl filled her room with noise to avoid the echo. Now I let the echo talk. Let it remind me that peace doesn’t come dressed up. It walks in barefoot and uninvited.
Nothing I’m saying here is profound. I’m not here to sell minimalism as a lifestyle. I’m just telling you what I’ve found when I stopped trying to collect moments and started living inside them. Coffee doesn’t fix anything, but it sits with me. Sunsets don’t offer clarity, but they keep me still. Champagne doesn’t always mean celebration, but it fizzes softly like a tiny rebellion against the dull. I don’t need my days to be big. I need them to be mine. And minimalism, for me, is simply the art of making room for what lingers when everything else is quiet.
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Who says what you're saying here isn't profound? I, for one, definitely read it as such. Sometimes, the most deep lessons and meanings come from the little, ordinary things. Like a chipped mug ;) This was a delightful read, to be honest, and I related with it a lot.
I particularly like this bit:
Well done :)
Last 5 years of my life are crucial for it, sweetie. If I'd tell you how scared of living I was almost my entire life you probably wouldn't believe me at all... Thank you for such a warm and touching words!!
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I think focusing more on the ordinary, and not attempting to forcefully make memories off of them is something that struck me in this your post. I did enjoy enjoy reading your write. Your style is poetic 💕
Have you heard about Alejandra Pizarnik? She is an inspiration for me. Perhaps that's why you appreciate the way I write these words, love! Thank you so mufor being kind
Thank you for your support! I appreciate it
I enjoyed reading this and even if you say no, it is a very deep text. How good it feels when you stop caring about unimportant things, when you don't cling to anything, because you realize how ephemeral things are, even life itself. Greetings
People are repeating theirselfs, almost like an impulse, "you're what you can possibly ear", but it precisely the other way around. We are, all of us, what we decide to keep repating and thus doing... Thank you for stopping by, love!