RE: Growing through the last layers of snow.
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Being stuck is, not wanting to grow, not willing to take the best decisions, unable to forgive or move on
I think this is a very interesting statement. Feeling stuck has always been a mystery to me that I’ve attributed mostly to burn up, but have never felt like I’ve fully gotten to the bottom of.
I feel a little stuck now, and I’ve been telling myself it’s because I just need to give myself time to rest, but your statement gives me a lot to think about and some good questions to ask myself.
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That's interesting! I feel like noticing the stuck-ness is mostly, at least, the first step towards getting un-stuck, and it is weirdly exciting sometimes to sense that something is changing even if we aren't sure yet how when or what it will be.
Time to rest! Yes I relate to that, it gets so easily overlooked.
Thank you:) and thanks for sharing your thoughts on the subject, that just made me realize even more how exciting it is to write about changes and then be able to have conversation about it!
Getting unstuck can sometimes be complicated. I think that talking about it, especially with strangers for some reason, often puts us in contact with ideas we don’t normally come across and those, in turn, often become the keys that we need to get unstuck, or at least to motivate us to finally take the action we need to take.
Very true! I was just thinking of that recently, and I felt it comes from these strangers asking completely different questions than the people who know us and already have expectations or assumptions about the situation. Also made me think that it is much more interesting (sometimes) to explain yourself to someone you don't know, for similar reasons. Sometimes I hear myself using completely different words, or realize where my words, all of a sudden, make not much sense at all.
Yeah, there is definitely less restraint both ways, as the speaker and as the listener/person commenting, especially online. I think that can be extremely helpful.